When the weather gets cooler, it's time to break out the hot lingerie! But remember, sexy intimate apparel for the holidays is not just for her. Treat him to some silk boxers (or for a fitted look that will get your fires burning, try a pair of silk briefs), pajamas or robes. If you expect your man to pick up holiday lingerie as a gift for you, make sure he knows all your sizes, including panty, bra and dress, as well as your color and material preference.
Don't try to wear something that isn't designed for your size. Women's lingerie made especially for full-bodied women will look great and make you feel sexy. Slinky fabrics and bold colors work wonders to show off her curves. Sometimes less is more, so don't shy away from skin-baring garments. Luxuriate in the lushness of the woman you treasure; pamper her with the finest fabrics.
Let your imagination run wild! Fantasy lingerie is a great way to investigate new avenues in your sex life. Why not play referee or dominatrix tonight? Dress up as a sexy witch or a pirate or a genie...or a butterfly? Even if you don't want to "bee" something else, you may simply try a fashion wig or an outrageous pair of thigh-high boots!
Throughout history, single young women all over the world have prepared for their change in marital status by accumulating a trousseau. A traditional trousseau -- stored in a hope chest -- included bridal accessories, jewelry, lingerie, toiletries and makeup, plus bed linens and bath towels for her new home. The sexy lingerie portion of the trousseau is obviously intended for the wedding night, but also proves to be a blessing for a healthy sex life through the marriage.
A lot of lingerie can be worn in daily life, such as a sheer bra. But keep in mind that sheer bras lack the support that a bra should provide. Therefore, while wearing a sheer bra once in a while is fine, to get the right kind of support on a daily basis, you must choose a bra that uses stronger materials that can offer the right kind of support you need.
|Jennifer Mathes, Ph.D.|